Oh how I wish I was 24 again or around that age. I was Hot if I may say so myself...Not HOT HOT Like but muscular and fit and really felt good about myself...Then the kids come along and drain the life out of you, take all those muscles that held up your boobs, and stomach, and now they look good, Life is not fair..and the older we get well downhill bodywise...
I have tried every Diet you can think of and its not easy doing it by yourself, From Weightwatchers, Dr Cohen , Jenny Craig...tablets or shakes..actually the one that worked well with me was the Blood diet found out what my blood type was and things I was allowed to eat and not eat..Man I looked good.
I still have this outfit which i refuse to throw away and determined to get into it, like size 14 , at 30 i could still fit that, but now I think one of my thighs just fit the skirt, yip thats right, ha ha.
Its funny how it affects the marriage too sad sometimes, because some men still want you looking the same as when they met you, but they dont worry if they get the double chin, balls sag, and Im so sure that the older they get there butt diminishes and everything moves in front ! I should do some research on that .
I have started this Journey not for my partner but for myself to get healthy again and loose weight, my backside could be a book for the blind with all the dimples ! A good comedy perhaps !
Men should love us for who we are not for what we look like, I mean really did you marry me for my body or personality?
Im not sure if I was going through Menopause or just a life crises, but I confronted my hubby and asked him does he love me, and he said of course, BUT there is a difference as we been for so long its a habit, Love u babe ok love you too, its like a stuck record its continuous because you say it every day BUT do you really mean it.
I asked hubby yea I know you love me but ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH ME? and he kept quiet, and I knew straight away and it hurt, it really did I kept on asking him questions as he did not want to answer because I knew he did not want to hurt me but I did not want to stay in a relationship where it was just convenient its not fair, I want to be happy, and loved and have fun and laugh and cuddled, and I didnt want to be 50 or 60 and missed those things.
So we discussed it and I did say I was always going to be his friend if we split up I would never take anything away from him as he is a hard worker and good provider.
After long thoughts and tears I gathered my thoughts the following day, and excited for this new Journey I will be going on.
So he woke up and its as we never had this discussion, came and hugged me and Im thinking What ?? I reminded him of the conversation we had and he said No hes been thinking and he has been selfish and He does not want to let me go,,,and will try and be more loveable etc....Oh well my Journey just crashed ! Meeting a hotty Crash, Travelling Crash !! DAMN!
I dont understand it sometimes you can be with your partner for so long but I think they take things for advantage and probably goes both ways too, but from my perspective I always say he looks nice cause they want to hear that too boost there ego too ! BUT I NEVER get Babe you look nice and I think if i heard that from my partner it motivates me more to look good. I can go out and get compliments from 20 to 50 year olds and I feel good, even though some of them are straight forward and ask Can I take You home...I mean Hello you almost the same age as my Son !! its sooo funny,
But the point is Dont stop telling your Partner that you have been through think and thin that You Love them on a daily basis and not mean it, dont make it a Convenient response or because its a habit.
Gotta tell her she looks good no matter if she has put on a few here and there, Im volumptious with a cherry on top, compliment her and even though you think there might be a better partner out there (which is some cases are) and you leave, and she moves on and finds that RIGHT GUY for her, you will regret your decision and wish you had made an effort and complimented her more,
So too all those woman who are struggling with Diets or need to be loved more No matter how you look or where you came from SHOW THIS TO YOUR PARTNER !
Adios Amigos Happy Reading
Whoever is Reading this Remember You are amazing and look good !
Mons!
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