My Life of the FAMOUS DIET...S

I Look back at when I started Dieting, it always happened after I had a ice cream or a chocolate Milkshake..and it was like ok Monday...why Monday I have no idea.. OR hubby checks this gorgeous chick with doube D and a cleavage...and its like Right thats it no more chips or cookies its final....but it lasts for like 3 days whyyyyyy so over it...but ....there is light at the end of the tunnel...

I today rejected a chocolate cake AND Pizza...now if I can reject that I can reject temptation and thats what I am going to do...

I feel there are so many diets around and alot of them are good but yet work only on some people and somewhere along all these diets there is something that WILL work for yet might not work for someone else..

While I was home for a few weeks, I decided to make a little bit of cash, and it did work, as I do alot of research and reviews on what I want to advertise and try, and think its only fair on me and others also that you are able to show the results.

So this is what I have done..

BLOOD DIET

This was a very good diet very strict and the weight falls off as I am the O which is the vegetarian and so true as Im not a great lover of meat .  

DR COHEN

This a friend of mine did and she did very well but as soon as she stopped when she got her goal weight she put it all back on..

                                       ORGANO GOLD

This product was amazing I love the Latte and coffee no sugar needed or  milk as so many people love coffee but not healthy, but this is a New coffee that is made out of Special Mushroom NOT happy mushroom but Ganoderma - Ganoderma is a genus of polypore mushrooms which grow on wood, and include about 80 species, many from tropical regions.^[1] Because of their extensive use in traditional Asian medicines, and their potential in bioremediation, they are a very important genus economically. Ganoderma can be differentiated from other polypores because they have a double walled basidiospore. They are popularly referred to as shelf mushrooms or bracket fungi.,, as per the wikidemia !

http://www.budspuds688.organogold.com

(view more go to this website) 

ISAGENIX

 WAS THE NEXT BEST THING 

 I must say worked for a few friends of mine because Im not a breakfast eater I use the milkshake and add fruit to it and really full which is ideal for me then have a salad and tuna for lunch and stirfry for dinner.  Now I cannot say it will work for you if I had to rate this on a Diet Scale that works I would say 70% because it can work and i think it all boils down to THE BODY...the thyroids, this that . You and I might have the same body do the exact same thing and You land up looking like a skinny Bi#$#$ and me Little Lotto.. ha

here is my Friends who has tried it..

http://monica.theron.isagenix.com

copy and paste

Having a look at me trying all these diets and pills I try and go for the most healthiest, man back in South Africa we had this product called LEANOR ,,,I would rate that 150% as that gave us sooo much energy and lost alot of weight, however ,,yip there is a HOWEVER...it tasted foul...we would have the drops which is like 15 or 20 lined up with coke, then chocolate then alcohol..lol not all the time though...but some did take advantage Penny would count her drops and like go..1,2,3, and say 5 but during that 5 she would put an extra ten ...she was Houdini cleaning here then would dissappear and was so worried that she would be shouting Purple elephants or put her head in the bushes like that Movie Death at a Funeral ha ha but it never happened thank Goodness.. Sad to say it landed up off the market ! 

THEN 

Lastly we have

 XERVEO 

http://www.pinterest.com/ilivingapp/xerveo-motion-natural-weight-loss/

 (must see)

This is for me a 90% on my list but do research dont just rush into buying anything , look at the reviews, google, pinterest, youtube etc You want to be comfortable buying a product and even though I sell this I dont want you buying it for the sake of it  I want you to feel comfortable and confident in this product.

I will be posting my pics before and after soon here are a few pics from google..

http:/www.xerveo.com/BUDSPUDS

http://xerveo.com/index.asp

(view more go to this website)

Dear Mom / Margaret Theron

I would like to dedicate this blog Letter to my Mom (Mother-in-law) 

Dear Mom 

I remember when I use to call to speak to Alan you were always pleasant and pushed Alan to call me as we were friends back then.  Alan then picked me up and we met and from the day I put my foot in the house I felt very welcome and Loved.

Since that day I have never stopped loving you,  even though I still love my mom YOU replaced a lot of things that I missed from my own mom.

You taught me how to cook your style,  you showed me your hiding spots which I still hide the chips just like you did, and even when we said no thanks we didn't hear the end of it ,,but that was you.  We dieted together and you also stood up for me when you son would be nasty.

Thank you for showing me how to shop for bargains, even though you use to try and let me wear these things you called PANTIES , G strings were so much comfortable and so wish you had tried one, one day...knowing you you would of put it the wrong way ,,,,ha ha'

Thank you for Alan, who has given you a lot of gray hairs, and thank you for my brothers who I never had.

That includes your whole family who have taken me in as part of them too

You have been a real inspiration in my life and I couldn't of asked for a better MOM in law than you,

Love You Mom

Lots of love Olie

Monica

Trip to South Africa and lets not forget to Include Penny !!!

I have been planning to surprise my sister in South Africa for a while so I landed up calling her partner and said Im coming , so myself and candy landed up in Durban and saw Dean walking with Penny ...and we are standing there as Penny was not suppose to Know...so she looks up and screams and laughs and laughs...so Im looking at Dean and first thing i said WHO TOLD HER.. ?? Penny didnt cry she was just laughing and I knew it straight away someone told her.

Its All About Me....Yip She has to be in the Picture !!!!

I was sorting out some old pictures last  night and came across Penny Once again and noticed something Odd...you can never get a picture of yourself without her Butting In....Yip ITS ALL ABOUT HER !! ha hah

Thanks for always making me smile !! Love U !!

 

He Loves Me, He Loves me Not, he Loves Me ? DOES HE ?

Oh how I wish I was 24 again or around that age. I was Hot if I may say so myself...Not HOT HOT Like but muscular and fit and really felt good about myself...Then the kids come along and drain the life out of you, take all those muscles that held up your boobs, and stomach, and now they look good, Life is not fair..and the older we get well downhill bodywise...

I have tried every Diet you can think of and its not easy  doing it by yourself, From Weightwatchers, Dr Cohen , Jenny Craig...tablets or shakes..actually the one that worked well with me was the Blood diet found out what my blood type was and things I was allowed to eat and not eat..Man I looked good.

I still have this outfit which i refuse to throw away and determined to get into it, like size 14 , at 30 i could still fit that, but now I think one of my thighs just fit the skirt, yip thats right, ha ha.

Its funny how it affects the marriage too sad sometimes, because some men still want you looking the same as when they met you, but they dont worry if they get the double chin, balls sag, and Im so sure that the older they get there butt diminishes and everything moves in front ! I should do some research on that . 

I have started this Journey not for my partner but for myself to get healthy again and loose weight, my backside could be a book for the blind with all the dimples ! A good comedy perhaps !

Men should love us for who we are not for what we look like, I mean really did you marry me for my body or personality?

Im not sure if I was going through Menopause or just a life crises, but I confronted my hubby and asked him does he love me, and he said of course, BUT  there is a difference as we been for so long its a habit, Love u babe ok love you too, its like a stuck record its continuous because you say it every day BUT do you really mean it. 

I asked hubby yea I know you love me but ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH ME? and he kept quiet, and I knew straight away and it hurt, it really did I kept on asking him questions as he did not want to answer because I knew he did not want to hurt me but I did not want to stay in a relationship where it was just convenient its not fair, I want to be happy, and loved and have fun and laugh and cuddled, and I didnt want to be 50 or 60 and missed those things.

So we discussed it and I did say I was always going to be his friend if we split up I would never take anything away from him as he is a hard worker and good provider.

After long thoughts and tears I gathered my thoughts the following day, and excited for this new Journey I will be going on.  

So he woke up and its as we never had this discussion, came and hugged me and Im thinking  What ?? I reminded him of the conversation we had and he said No hes been thinking and he has been selfish and He does not want to let me go,,,and will try and be more loveable etc....Oh well my Journey just crashed ! Meeting a hotty Crash, Travelling Crash !! DAMN! 

I dont understand it sometimes you can be with your partner for so long but I think they take things for advantage and probably goes both ways too, but from my perspective I always say he looks nice cause they want to hear that too boost there ego too ! BUT I NEVER get Babe you look nice and I think if i heard that from my partner it motivates me more to look good. I can go out and get compliments from 20 to 50 year olds and I feel good, even though some of them are straight forward and ask Can I take You home...I mean Hello you almost the same age as my Son !! its sooo funny,

But the point is Dont stop telling your Partner that you have been through think and thin that You Love them on a daily basis and not mean it, dont make it a Convenient response or because its a habit.

Gotta tell her she looks good no matter if she has put on a few here and there, Im volumptious with a cherry on top, compliment her and even though you think there might be a better partner out there (which is some cases are) and you leave, and she moves on and finds that RIGHT GUY for her, you will regret your decision and wish you had made an effort and complimented her more,

So too all those woman who are struggling with Diets or need to be loved more No matter how you look or where you came from SHOW THIS TO YOUR PARTNER ! 

Adios Amigos Happy Reading

Whoever is Reading this Remember You are amazing and look good !

Mons!

Things You Do Out of Boredom !

When we are down , and husbands have given us Uphill, which is often ..could be they are getting way older or do not like us spending time talking to our Sisters...So this is What we do to cheer each other up...Each pic probably has a story..

Can I Help You ..huh? You got What ?

Not sure if shes practicing to have Botox Lips ?

Helen Had a Bored Moment!!!!

TRIP TO SA - ESHAKA OR USHAKA whatever !!

 

 

 

 

Out of us all Helen is Normal and Myself but when we all get together I honestly think we were all born in a Looney House...

Who took my False Teeth!

I think I swallowed A Fly....give me the Vodka !

ahhhh give me anothe dop my china!!

If only the knew we put this up lol

so funny

This is way scary....i think too much smoke hahhahaah

Ai man what u checking ??

Is it Time to Move out? Huh You only 14 ? oh Ok !!

Helen, Penny and Myself we all had a Boy and a Girl, and As always we always think our kids are the most beautiful born ever.......When they born, and you go to the Window and look at them and think mmmm oh dear Hope thats not mine or mmm looks like the Father ..huh perhaps I can take that  one and Run ?? but remember you are basically still stoned from all that happy gas they gave you so you dont think straight ..!

 I know right..Cute ay ! :-)

I had 2 beautiful kids , Garreth was the most beautiful baby out, 3.6kg and very much a mommys boy, loved drinking boob! I think I had extra cream in mine because he just drank and drank ..it was ideal, as breast milk was the right temperature, always had enough and when he finished both boobs i would have to quickly drink some coke as that believe it or not filled me up quick...Then of course the after effects..Gas...mm Lets not go there..but other than that he was soooo cute until ahhh 10, no hang  on 12 .. actually he was a typical boy.  We would keep an eye on him all the time if he was not in his room he would be on top of the roof trying to do a Johnny Knoxville stunt or a Tony Hawks stunt, but always busy I think he had ADD OR AKOTM (A Kid on the Move) well thats what I would call it..

He got his fair share of hidings, but our wooden spoons were called Elvis because they would sing like him, they always disappeared, and found them hidden in Garreths Room. He was adored and a very smart kid. I could write forever on what he has been up to but that will come at a later stage, Garreth is My life, and he is 21 Now and wish they were small again, there is a time where I have to let go, and he has made decisions in his life which has not gone favorable in his direction, but how else are they going to learn if they don't make there own mistakes and learn from that ?

The Thing is they go to school and then by 18 assume they are independent and want to move out , and i cannot fault that as I was the same,  wanted to move in with friends as it sounded like so much fun...i think it lasted 3 months...with us...but they dont realise all the other expenses they have to pay like water, groceries and generally day to day living...but if you dont try it how do you know what its like...

Im very proud of him and even though we argue he will still by my little boy, he always hugs and kisses me goodbye and goodnight and Im greatful for every minute I spend with him, Because I them to grow up and Remember Good Times.

How Do you Cope When Things Happen to You ?

As far as i remember when we were little probably about 7 years old my sisters and I use to go to the the Entertainment Area , where we went on the dodge cars, and air hockey and was fun, the more we went there the more this Elderly Man tried to befriend us. I still remember him what he looked like and makes my hairs on my neck stand up.

So the one day we were playing near the dodge cars and he called us and was feeling himself and smiling at us...we at that age knew what he was doing was so wrong, and cannot imagine how many others he did that too, it makes me sick to think it we the lucky ones,,,and others not..but at 7 what do we know...except right and wrong.

When I was about 10 , my mothers step-brother and family came over and he was a funny uncle and excited our cousins were there , and we all slept in the lounge, and woke up with him molesting me, i knew this was not right....i felt dirty, and went and lay by my father but didnt say anything but felt safe with him.

That Morning, I stayed away from him , and he tried to be very loveable,  My mom asked Me whats wrong, and because I didnt want to give her brother a hug good bye i was sent to my room.

when he left i confronted my mom and told her what Happened...Sad thing is My mom called me a Liar.. and I will never forget that. ..I was very close to my dad and never told him , and was scared he would think of me otherwise,,,yet it was not my fault!

The Older I got I did research and even though I grew up I never regarded him as My Uncle, Never would i associate with him never even let him near my kids and I told my kids why.

A few years later My niece told me that he bought her a ticket to come visit him in Johannesburg, and he showed her Porn and dirty magazines...

How on earth can he live with himself, Family of all people. 

You know its really sad as so many people are abused in many different ways, that mentally they dont know how to cope and survive , its either passed on into the family or get themselves into depression and they dont realise that THEY ARE NOT TO BLAME...but people react differently and think they are in pure or everyone judges them or they provoked it or they dirty and the list goes on and on.

How did I cope...whey must I give him the benefit of the doubt that he will make my life hell and miserable, and land up with depression...Hell No! It has made me aware and stronger than ever,  whatever my kids have told me I have supported them from the beginning.

You have to believe what your kids say or investigate even if you record a conversation Do what ever you have to do to Catch these Disturbing People..

Succeed with your life, and be happy and protect all those close to you, while we climb the ladder they sit on there chair drinking and miserable as hell..

Continue to strive to do your best , and make the best out of your life..

Adios from The Wonderful "Me"

Marriage...To Throttle or Not to Throttle..

Why were we not told about this before we leap in this ? Seriously Woman should go for at least a 3 week course ..and should title it..

1. Sex ...now i have your attention
2. How to Train the New Husband how to handle criticism when giving it!
3. Because You have cleaned the Kitchen ...I am not printing out a Certificate !!
4. Is it wrong to Wish you were a prey mantice or a Black Widow and Jumping Spider ?

on a higher note...its true, check this out  / Option 5

Female praying mantis eats male after mating - YouTube

Lets re-iterate  on each one shall we, this is just my personal version..no pun intended for all the wonderful husbands out there...

1.  This is a subject which some will disagree...So funny how when you get married and its like 24/7 

     at the beach, in the car, and were so adventurous. 

•      Then Kids come, and its like no more face to face because then the milk will squirts in his face, or you will wake up the baby, hurry babe...or plain and simple im Exhausted..
• Life changes you completely because from being the one and only who got all the attention now the kids get all the attention and him 2nd, and its sad to say i think too that this is where Husbands feel alone or neglected, as a woman having a baby it comes to us naturally, yet When Men become fathers they have no clue..some go astray and find that "attention"elsewhere" ...
• You have to talk about it how it effects you (male) just because we dont want "nookie" does not mean we DONT LOVE YOU...ITS just a 24hr job cleaning, changing nappies, catching up with eating, napping, me time , and just to name a few.
• Communicate or have a date night, the older we get, and trust me im speaking from experience, we will go to the beach..deserted of course..and try and be adventerous but its like as if you go camping....and need no 2 ... u go in the bushes and do it but you look around,,,to see if anyone is looking.........hence why it always looks like a figure 8 !!!! same with the beach you scared you going to be caught...can you imagine ! Parent caught in bushes with Partner...and these are the things we tell our kids to not do and be safe...pfff
• You must have fun so they dont go looking elsewhere..actually back in our days wow we talking when i was like 30 i decided to stand on a corner and hubby did a u turn and was going to pick me up...but within that 2 minutes other cars were slowing down , looking at me...Business would of been good in those days..lol kidding yip got picked up by hubby and it was fun.
• so if sex life is not good ...BLAME THE KIDS !! :0)

 

2.   I use to be very quiet and naive ..never spoke back and when i met my husband he opened my whole world on how to stand up for myself...i think at times he wish he didnt....but Marriage is all about expressing ourselves...Men hate being told they wrong..well some of them, like i say if you give it learn to take it...if you cant well tough takkies !!

3.  Now this is soooo weird, I love cleaning, make sure my house is neat and smells nice, love candles and they always burning..and as hubby works away ...when he comes back, Oh Boy, beer bottles lying around, tools all over, clothes next to his bed........WORST OF ALL...toilet roll on floor,,,on the 3rd day, he wants to know why is this place a mess...i just want to throttle him..ARE YOU SERIOUS!! and when they clean the kitchen WE HAVE TO COMMENT and say thank you. which i do but why only does he have to get the compliment...i dont,...i dont understand ..hopefully one day i will.

4. Well Know can you imagine, this if we are like prey mantis ...scenario...

• Hey honey i made your favorite meal, you want a beer, i have a surprise for you smiling and blowing a kiss..and him smiling back...
• walk in room with red lingerie, hubby all excited have amazing nookie...and nek minute i have my dinner and eat him.. I mean really.. can you imagine, perhaps i watch too much CSI movies...ha ha

You know talk about marriage i have been married for almost 23 years ( I think) and we have had our ups and downs, but we deal with them words are said which can be hurtful , but you have to work around these issues so they dont re accur.

I must say i was so annoyed with my husband that i put him on a Asian Dating web site..i made sure no quick green card, put a picture of him on there , made sure they knew how to clean and cook etc... 

2 days later i checked and he had over 20 requests...bugger that i took him off so quickly...have threatened him i will re do it..ha ha 

My hubby does work away hence we been married for so long,  I do love him, but man does he annoy me at times...

 

on a good note some rules...

 

 

 

 

 

Teens ! IM PUTTING THEM On Ebay !

Having Teens mmm we should of prepared ourselves or given a manual before we had them, as you expect todays Generation to be like "How we were" ....

This could be a Long Blog..ha

No seriously I been tossing and turning as im sure others do when you kids go out to town for fun,,,which is fine I Trust my daughter completely...but its the OTHERS... mmm you know what I mean...She had a 2 year relationship with a wonderful guy but they were both young and decided to go there own ways...had a bath full of tears....but shes over him (I Hope) but Now this is where I worry , all the guys that think she was awesome want her and you want to know Why! She cleans, cooks and stunning of course...I do think she will be 30 before she moves out , Yip we are good friends but In our days we had like 2 Jobs....and really frustrating when you dont see them push themselves to succeed in Life,,,

Im not working at Mcdonalds erggg my hair will get greasy, mmm so we directed to Sales perhaps a surf shop or clothing Industry, Yip we emailed...and it stops right there!! Helllo keep going.. ay ay ay Kids drive me to drink..

So she goes out right, on Friday as well and texts me and sais......Mom please can you clean my room !!....at 12.42am...she had her girlfriend come over.....Sure Candy let me put my work clothes on, get out of bed, and fold up YOUR clothes that is sprawled over the Bed, pick up all your SHOES like 5 pairs on the floor, just so your room looks clean for your friend,,,I THINK NOT !

Why punish me that way do they have any consideration , ahhh my moms sleeping shame i cant expect her to wake up...i should of done that before I left...Hello welcome to the real world...

You will notice we as South Africans say "shame" Alot.....but that will follow in another chapter.. :0)

Today being Sunday, at 2am shes not home, 3am not home so I Text and say where are you, They dont realise we cant sleep until they home....Im trying to get a lift , however she had taxi money , she said she will explain yea right....im waiting...so 4.15am shes home...oh good i can go back to bed....Na thats it cant sleep im up...THANKS ALOT !

I have specified I dont mind picking them up in Emergency which I have done, but when they spend the Taxi Money for other things now thats why sometimes I want to put them on Ebay ! at an expensive rate of course...

This is just a small Chapter on Teens...im going to get up and make a cuppa
Enjoy

Mon!

Weird and Wonderful Pics of THE TWISTED SISTERS! ok One of them Penny ! ohhh and added Helen ...ha ha

Remember when I indicated that Penny always wants to be in photos ...well I wonder where she is...

 

Its really weird with our upbringing you would expect us to be very sensitive on people talking about Foster Care Issues, or Alcoholism ...etc..but realized that what we went through we wouldn't want our kids go through what we went through, and we found it has made us stronger, wiser , ahhh even though we love our bottle of wine, after a few we Whatsup each other and we all call ourselves Ok Mommy....im laughing just thinking about it ...ok well you had to have been there to see the humor in it..

Penny trying for Poop Idols...im so sure she in on happy Pills 24 / 7 

This Video well Ellen De Generes had a competition on , and it said see how long you can keep your friends or family smiling...pretend you taking a photo but u video taping..and see the reaction.. ha ha

ok more to follow tomorrow its 10.15pm Good Night You all !


I Felt so Bad yesterday ...ha ha so i had to add Helen we were joking around and this is how we have fun...

 

 

Al Capones Mothers Mothers Sisters Daughter !!

+Penny Arkell 

I Have to share this, I was feeling down as I landed up with Plurasy . never heard of it, I recon its close to birth pain..freakin sore...so anywho Penny went to the Dentist and she had a swollen mouth and found music and made this Video...man thats why I Love her so much she uplifted my mood so much saw this like 20 x it was hilarious...

Found a Photo that might resemble Penny that look similar -- If you see her on the streets Beware !
+Penny Arkell

Surviving the Childrens Homes..

Hi, I have eventually decided to get my butt into gear and write as back in those days doing it the "Typewriter" way would of taken too long..

This blog is about Surviving, challenges we faced, disappointment, Marriage, children, sticking together, and laughter..

Taken away by the welfare when I was only 11 years old...with my Sisters, very painful memory. Reason being my Mother drank and My father worked away to provide for the Family, and how the welfare found out , was I use to stay home and clean the house and sign my moms signature so nobody new she was gone (which is something she did often).

We have a step sister Bernie, wow what a Intelligent Person she was, stunning and so arty, very spoilt though by my mother.  Then there was Me, yip the Mother Hen, which I was called so many times by my sisters , which is funny when I think about it. Helen after Me, Im telling you, she should of been my twin, but I will come back to this later..After Helen came the Other Twisted Sizter ! Penny, where she came from I have no idea :-) She is the crazy one that keeps us Laughing..and keeps us in the Crazy Zone.  Deborah Came and contributed to the rainbow nation, not sure how many kids she has but she was also young to defend on her own,,her choices and still love her, and lastly Desiree who was adopted by a wonderful couple and now married and very happy.

Twisted Sizters

Penny, Myself & Helen

We have grown up and faced so many challenges, cried many times and up building friendship, but what has made us strong is My Sisters, even though I wonder who let them out the Loony Bin at times they have been my strength, and I would be happy to Join them in the Loony Bin no Matter What..

If we look back at how we were brought up, in the homes, and think about how we were taken, and who we stayed with and met....being at William Clark Gardens was a wonderful Journey , we lived with people who were all in the same scenario as us, and made awesome friends who we are still friends with today.

My Mother...

Well this might take up my whole page and so much to write, but after reading our files when I went to South Africa on Holiday Penny and I met with the Social Worker and got permission to read our files, we had 6 big files, and were really excited..it was wow , No kidding ! and we laughed...but to our amazement did not realise how long the welfare had been on our track and in our lives...this was when my mother was pregnant with Bernadene , my step sister.

My Mom had been through foster care as well, and a real difficult life, but gave us alot of heartache, but as we grow older we learnt about her alcoholism and accepted it, she is still alive today and still plays catches and has this (sic) sense of humour which as passed on to us...but we love her still.

This Is My Mom, i think she is 67 now no 65 ahh in her late 60's !

So to get a Bigger idea of the Twisted Sizters Page..i will break it down, I only have some photos of my sisters...so we will start off with Bernadene...

Boy was she a bully, always wanting the good things in life hence we got all the hand me downs, if i had to hit her i would run because she would punish me 4x as hard. 

Bernie had a Child at 18, Mandy, who was the cutest baby ever, the saddest part of this was to see history repeat itself, Bernie would hitch hike with Mandy to bars and sleep at random peoples places, and by this time I was 16yrs Old and still at William Clark Gardens and would demand that Mandy be taken away because of Bernadenes behaviour..

But back in those days probably still today they prefer the kid with the Mother , and work with the mother to provide a better life for the child.

When Mandy was 3 years old I had moved out and landed a job at Golden Hours Centre a center for Disability Children and loved it and that same year Met My wonderful Husband , whom I am married to still..but thats another Chapter..perhaps with the Heading ..Does the Meaning of Husband come with a Manual ???

Mandy would watch her Mother Drink and try and jump out the Window and she would be screaming or left alone with strangers...The Welfare eventually stepped in and found wonderful host parents Theresa Ameral and think Mandy would of had an exceptional life and upbringing, but because Bernadene would promise she will put her act together the Welfare took Mandy away from Amerals and back into her hands....Sad moment for me, as I felt this was wrong , not even a week  later Mandy was left alone with Strangers..Bernadene did so many drugs and battered by her boyfriends , had 2 more girls Michelle and Bridgette , Michelle adopted and Bridgette Repeating Bernadine's history, how sad is that. 

But ,,, I can say that Mandy has had no guidelines , no Mom No Father except us as family and has survived so many mountains and stayed positive, she has always been like a 2nd daughter to me and so very proud of her..

This Is my wonderful Mandy (Niece)

Ray Theron my Mothers ex Boyfriend, My dad then penny Blonde Bernie , Debbie and Mandy

My Wonderful Amazing Niece Mandy

I am in the Interim of trying to find her Sister Michelle who was adopted and hope come out with great results she needs some form of closure to see if she is ok.

As you can see Bernadene was stunning and believe it or not she is only 2 years older than me, its really scary how people are abused and how they take it as a Just the way life is or realistically move out as NO MAN should lift his hand to anyone...Bernadene has been beaten, Raped, and taken ALOT of drugs and alcohol. So sad to see Our Sister this way..we have never ignored her or forgotten her SHE IS OUR SISTER...and no matter what they have done or become..they are Family.

This is Bernadene..& Mandy, and even though Bernadene was never around for Mandy , Mandy still cares for her.

 Me !

 

Me , well Im the one who hates seeing anyone hurt, always worry about my sisters as they are my world, they hated me when we were in the homes....Penny use to where black and I would shout at her and Helen...too and they ALWAYS use to shout You Not My Mother..!! lol we laugh about it so much ...

I have learnt so much at a Young age, very heart broken when my Dad passed away, who was the most wonderful man ever, whom i miss still today...

The funny thing is, If Penny or Helen is upset I sense it and ask ...and they would say I was just about to call ...Now this is where the Twins issue comes with helen, we are soo alike, only 1 year and 1 month apart...The One day i called her and said I have Tennis elbow on my right ..and she burst out laughing and she had it on her right...we EVEN have our periods at the same time..ok 80% of the time..

Was 18 and met my Husband..even though wanted the blonde sexy surfer...landed up with total opposite, rough looking Bouncer..from all the ex's that wanted to shag on the first night...Hubby surprisingly was not like that. Yet in his younger days shagged anything that moved, and if it did not he would kick it...thats what he would say:-)

23 years later and 2 wonderful kids later we have made it, ..How well wait for the next heading under Marriage!! which might take 2 months to write ha ha...

I decided to make a Homepage for William Clark Gardens starting off with us Twisted Sizters and landed up with 98..most of them still in contact with today and so glad to see them succeed in life and not go down a path to destructiveness.

Good Thing is too By Best Mate Barbs, whom i shared a room with at William Clark Gardens,,,disliked her cause she had these legs that just about touched heaven...well almost that is exaggerating abit..but long blonde hair too stunning chick, we still are best mates today and I introduced her Husband whom she is still married to today , so good to see that...

Achieving My Chines Cupping Certificate

Helen......

Helen is the mmm I would say Union of this Family, fears nothing, very much like my Mom, also had a tough life, where she had to stand up for herself at a young age.

We went to Gold Reef City Once in Johannesburg, and having a ball and this Kid pulled a tongue at Helen and Of course helen has no shame...ha ha she tells this kid off that its rude etc, and this kid pulls a tongue again..no problem helen goes up to this kid and smacks him, he cried so loud We look at each other and Ran...man oh man , it was funny at the time..

I do wish i was like her sometimes cause shes very open and says it like it is..me i walk away cause im hurt walk to be calm..

Helen is my rock too we talk every day, and husbands and kids and general stuff..

This is my amazing twin sister 1 year 1 month later...which always use to argue and say Why cant i come home same time as Monica, Im only 1 Year 1 Month Younger...pfff get over it woman lol

 Penny........where do i begin with this Woman..

Penny is the glue to this family...has the sickest sense of humour and comes up with Random videos and photos..and most importantly hates been left out...

for Instance Penny and Hubby met us in Bali and had soooo much fun, Helen and I would take a photo and In Penny would Jump we would go swimming and Penny would jump in and make sure she is in the middle,,,lol never laughed so much in all my life...50% of the photos had Pennys big fat head in,,,or just popping over someones head...

She lives so far and miss her so much.

We would all congregate and see what we can do with the kids and how we can trick them...for instance we landed up putting powder in my daughters hairdryer and as she switched it on, she had this white face...we peed ourselves ..or we would put all the kids up and ask them what a word means and it was so funny hearing what they came up with.

She is an amazing mom who always has humour...in her family.....

I personally think she needs a stray jacket every day...but thats just my opinion..lol

Penny..Sorry but this is the only one i could find i will replace it when i find a nice one hahah

Then we come to Debbie

Debbie is a sad story as my Dad passed away and basically when he died Debbie got lost and decided to go on her own, as helen looked after her and tried to make her independent, but landed up doing her own thing, we have never judged her, she is our sister, and even though she has contributed to the rainbow nation, we still talk to her and support her where we can...like perhaps invest in condoms.

 Debbie has tried to find herself...pic 1 is her so nice pic 2 well ahhh not sure about that one..lol

Desiree

Desi was the lucky one and adopted by wonderful people, and had an amazing life and we could not of asked for better parents than what she has now.  

Thats if for now...butt getting numb oh and gotta feed the other child...adios  from Twisted Sisterz!

This is Desi's wonderful parents who took her in and love them to bits

My sweet Sis ..